Let’s squeeze the juice out of life

Because you weren’t made to run on “just enough to get through the week.”
You’re here to wring every last drop of pleasure & purpose from the life you’ve got.

I want to give you permission to want more for yourself.

To feel more than “fine.”
To be lit up by who you are and what you’re doing — and to own that as your baseline, not a fleeting dopamine hit.

Most women I meet are running on half voltage.

And half voltage is costing us more than we think.

You might be travelling the safe route, never brave enough to follow what would really light you up. Or you’re living your dream— but you’ve given too much and now you’re a breath away from burning it all down.

Either way, you’re parched and giving the dregs to your family, work, and world

when you could be so well-fed that you make bold-ass calls, create what actually matters and show up in a way that is so damn delicious that it feeds everyone & everything you love

— without draining yourself dry.

I’m suggesting that there’s another way

One where you’re not rationing your energy, but fuelling yourself so fully that you’ve got more than enough to give.

One where your work in the world doesn’t drain you — it feeds you.

One where you trust yourself enough to follow what lights you up, even if it’s not the “sensible” choice.

This isn’t about willpower, time management, or grinding harder - it’s about fuelling the parts of you that has the power to create everything else.

The Five Pillars of a Fully Alive Woman, aka The Arc of Aliveness.

These are the non-negotiables I centre in my work — because when they’re fed, you thrive, no matter what’s happening around you.

– Body –

Your felt sense gets you out of the swirl in your head and into the truth of your heart.

– Roots –

Place and people give you belonging and stability so you can take bigger risks without toppling.

– Emotions –

Your primal power lives here — unexpressed emotion keeps your energy locked away.

– Erotic Aliveness –

The amplifying current that turns desire into direction. When you’re lit from within, you magnetise what you want and have the energy to go after it.

– Purpose –

There’s a bigger reason you’re here — and we need you well-fed, lit up, and with your fire burning.

A well-fed woman is a force to be reckoned with.

A well-fed, regulated, deeply resourced, ripe woman is dangerous — in the best possible way.

In my psychosomatic sessions, we work in a space that’s soft, safe, and rich. It’s for intimacy, depth, and brilliant realisations - where your subconscious speaks, your body recalibrates, and you come all the way back online.

We can do this in:

A single deep-dive session — to recalibrate and reawaken.

6 month mentorship — to change how you live, lead, and create from the inside out.

Hi, I’m Jess

—SOMATIC MENTOR, FORMER PSYCHOLOGIST, AND A MIRROR FOR YOUR BRILLIANCE.

I help women who feel restless, constricted and harbouring a surprising impulse to burnt it all down,
women who are simply done performing, pretending, or pushing on through - come back to the woman who rumbles inside.

I started as a psychologist, became a UN humanitarian worker, saw and experienced what happens to women when they give too much and receive too little — to became a mentor for women who want more than calm… they want aliveness.

I work where the nervous system, Eros, and purpose meet — because that’s where your power lies.

My women are the women who yearn to feel so much more of themselves, because they know they’re here to be so much more.

We might go together like cheese and wine if:

You’re an entrepreneur, a leader, a creative, or a mother - but what binds you here isn’t a job title or role it’s the rupture, that subtle — or searing — disconnection from your essence, your fire, your fuel.
You’ve already reached some version of success… but you can feel something bigger trying to come through.
You believe lit-up women change the world — and you want to be one of them.
You’re allergic to fluff, formulas, and performative spiritual spaces — you’re here for real depth, real pleasure, and real purpose.
You want to spend what’s left of your time and energy on what truly matters — and you know that starts with coming back to yourself.
You want to feel yourself again, to radically reimagine who you are, to break free from the shapes you’ve outgrown, to let your voice, sensuality, and truth take up space.
You don’t want surface-level reinvention. You want something cellular. Primal. Erotic. and alive.

We'll low-key fall in love with each other if you

love the outdoors, hikes, swimming in waterholes, local markets, and looking at the stars
you suspect a council of grandmothers would do a sight better than the current global leaders.
you’d love to see people working less, smiling more, and enjoying at least 3 day weekends full of family and fun - and that comes with a universal basic income, access to clean water, shelter, food and human rights for all
you’re deeply critical of our current dominant society and economic systems & know it’s time some of this crumbled and died
the thought of women following their dreams makes you tingle a little
you aren't looking for someone to fix you, you're looking for someone to walk beside you as you feed your soul, remember your brilliance and shine a whole lot brighter